Tuesday, March 10, 2009
Company incentive trip to Bintan was great! I had fun and so does everyone else (I hope).
We played team bonding game, soak in the sea and pool water, swam with a moniter lizard, watched the guys played games and crazy drinking sessions, danced like nobody's business at La Luna beach bar, had a pretty good massage and scrub at Pasar Oleh Oleh, got so damn tan and came back to Singapore with an aching body.
Because this was my first time to go on a company incentive trip, I did not really know what to expect. Had heard many horror stories through fellow colleagues but thank goodness, I was okay. We took hell lotsa pictures, scandalous picture especially haha. Will upload the nicer ones when I received them.
This incentive trip made me realized many of things. People can be selfish, can be so judgmental, doubtful and untruthful. Not pointing at any particular person, these thoughts came into my mind on the first night at Bintan when I couldn't sleep.
Humans are known to back stab. But to what extent do you have to do that? When someone said something that is not exactly impactful or just made some lame/not so important comments, do they deserved to be the topic for someone else's gossip or laughing stock? What joy do people derived from laughing at someone's embarrassing moments? And when it happens to that person, does he/she gives someone innocent the benefit of doubt, question the innocent and accuse the innocent? Ever spare a thought for the innocent? How will other people judge and look at the innocent when that person spread the untrue? Why people do not practice what they preach? Why people do not think about the rights they have? Are they in the position so comment, criticize any other humans?
These are the questions that have been running through my mind for a very long time. Maybe I am being paranoid, being way too sensitive.
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Because I was in Bintan, I had to miss my darling's 22nd birthday on the 6th of March 09.
HAPPY BIRTHDAY XIAOLING!!
You will also be the only dua neh neh in my heart. haha! Love ya. Will compensate you one day!!!
Pictures up soon!
Labels: Bintan, Birthday, Incentive Trip, insecurities, Rants, Work
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