What I do, is none of your business. . .

Tuesday, March 10, 2009

Company incentive trip to Bintan was great! I had fun and so does everyone else (I hope).

We played team bonding game, soak in the sea and pool water, swam with a moniter lizard, watched the guys played games and crazy drinking sessions, danced like nobody's business at La Luna beach bar, had a pretty good massage and scrub at Pasar Oleh Oleh, got so damn tan and came back to Singapore with an aching body.

Because this was my first time to go on a company incentive trip, I did not really know what to expect. Had heard many horror stories through fellow colleagues but thank goodness, I was okay. We took hell lotsa pictures, scandalous picture especially haha. Will upload the nicer ones when I received them.

This incentive trip made me realized many of things. People can be selfish, can be so judgmental, doubtful and untruthful. Not pointing at any particular person, these thoughts came into my mind on the first night at Bintan when I couldn't sleep.

Humans are known to back stab. But to what extent do you have to do that? When someone said something that is not exactly impactful or just made some lame/not so important comments, do they deserved to be the topic for someone else's gossip or laughing stock? What joy do people derived from laughing at someone's embarrassing moments? And when it happens to that person, does he/she gives someone innocent the benefit of doubt, question the innocent and accuse the innocent? Ever spare a thought for the innocent? How will other people judge and look at the innocent when that person spread the untrue? Why people do not practice what they preach? Why people do not think about the rights they have? Are they in the position so comment, criticize any other humans?

These are the questions that have been running through my mind for a very long time. Maybe I am being paranoid, being way too sensitive.

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Because I was in Bintan, I had to miss my darling's 22nd birthday on the 6th of March 09.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY XIAOLING!!

You will also be the only dua neh neh in my heart. haha! Love ya. Will compensate you one day!!!

Pictures up soon!

Labels: Bintan, Birthday, Incentive Trip, insecurities, Rants, Work

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Sunday, May 25, 2008

I just attended my ex-colleague-turned-friend's, Cheryl's wedding at Shangri-La Hotel. Well, look like the location and you know whoa, it's gonna be a feast.

Indeed it was. Although I had to rush from work and got myself all sweaty and sticky, I thought it was worth it. Not because of the food la but to see a friend whom I've worked with for almost 1 year, seeing her and talked to her for almost everyday. It touched my heart to see her going through the process which will let her live a life like a princess.

When Chamebelle, Isnarti and I stepped into the reception area, it was overwhelmed with the bride's and bridegroom's friends/relatives/colleagues. We saw the bridegroom in white tuxedo. Very charming indeed. I knew the bridegroom, Winston when I was working with Cheryl. As much as he can, he will come down to fetch Cheryl. Then, we will disturb him say, "Why you always read book one?".

Back to the reception, we felt a little out of place. Cocktail was being served and finally we managed to get to our table.

The dinner started with the newly-wed walking down the aisle. I tell you, Cheryl's dress looks extremely gorgeous. IT IS GODDAMN PRETTY! She designed her wedding gown and evening gown anyway. So we popped the party-popper and welcomed them. I guess Cheryl's was happy to see the 3 of us 'cos she did not expect us to be there. She tried to wave at us while holding her bouquet of flower.

I could see the joy in her eyes. She was shining. Then, I felt tears in my eyes. Maybe because it's the first time I attended a friend's wedding or maybe I am just being emotional.

Then, they screened the video done by Winston. It contains pictures when they were dating, when they were abroad and etc. It brought tears to my eyes again.

Finally, the dinner started. No sharkfins but lotsa abalone. Damn shiok. The service was damn good. My wine glass was never empty, my tea cup was never empty too. So, they refill, I drank, refill, drank. Shiokness. Even the wine was premium wine if I am not wrong. Shiokness!

After about 3 or 4 course, the couple changed and walked down the aisle again to the stage for the champagne toasting. Cheryl wore this fuschia halter low-back dress. And the special? 3 black stones drape behind. It was seriously seriously pretty. I wish I will have pictures to share but it's all with Chamebelle. But I want to blog it out while the memory is fresh.

So they yum seng and they screened the happenings during the day. The usual tea ceremony and how they 'tekan' the groom. The video though simple but wonderfully done with a touch of humor. I can't help but tear again. The couple then presented their thank you speech.

Winston did the very classic kind of speech. But I thought Cheryl's was short because I think she was on the verge of tearing , with hints of sarcasm. Haha. Maybe I was being sensitive la.

Then, the 8 course dinner continued till the end. All the way we were aiming Isnarti's halal food which was another feast to our taste buds. We were practically sharing food here and there. Tak glam...

The wedding dinner was splendid. The ang bao I gave was a small amount but it's the thoughts that counts right. Still, Cheryl found the man of her life, commit herself to something significant for the rest of her life and become a Mrs! Honestly, I believe Winston will take care of her and treat her well. It's just my gut feeling.

Sigh, I'm sucha drama mama.

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Oh! It's my boyfriend's birthday! Happy Birthday my dear boy! You are a lao kok kok now! *giggle*

Labels: Birthday, Friends, Wedding

express yourself {11:36 PM}

Monday, December 17, 2007

Attended Yang's birthday on Saturday. Met up with gf and respective bfs before we ate and played pool to kill time. The guys played most of the games and we girls cam whored! Gf got herself a new phone so we decided to explore alllllll the camera functions. We had a good time laughing, especially when we took multiple shots. Damn funny lor!

Click to enlarge. Damn funny and fun can!!!

Just in time for christmas!

Whahah!!!! Anyway, I just realised we did not take any pictures with the birthday boy. But at least Yang had fun! And I hope he likes our present for him! The food is good too! Yummy! Yang is a good cook! Yang's really nice because he always drive as around during gathering and we totally appreciate it!! I hope that Raoul voucher will be useful. Even saw my bf's ex staff, Mervin with his gf and his oh-so-cute Pomeranian puppy! Pic's still with gf thou!

Happy Birthday Lim Wei Yang!

Labels: Birthday

express yourself {12:15 AM}

Sunday, November 11, 2007

Finally, I am motivated to blog about my birthday. My birthday wasn't too bad and wasn't too good.

Met up with Yang and Angel in Tampines before meeting the others. Yang was so funny! He suddenly got down from the driver's seat and moved to the passenger seat at the back. Then, he started sniggering by himself. LOL! Then, I asked him why is he laughing to himself and this is what he said, " I very excited mah! First time sit in my own car's passenger seat." DANG!

Had dinner at Joaquim that started late and hence, we ended dinner late too. Headed to zouk and it was fuckinnnnnnnnnnn crowded. After much discussions, we decided to go DXO, and they were playing retro for the night. In fact, it was a blessing in disguise. The songs genre suddenly changed to r&b! At the time, I was left with Tiny, Stephanie, bf and friends. Cos something happened. So, I enjoyed with Tiny and friend, plus another group of malay girls. One of the girls had the same birthday as me!

Ok. I am too lazy to typed out the details and below are a few pictures.

I would like to thank:

Angelina Tan

Thanks for being my best friends for eons years! I appreciate the effort you made to stay a bit longer just to celebrate my birthday with me! I definitely love the presents you gave me! I lurp youuu!

Boyfriend

Thanks for taking care of me when I was tipsy! You sure looks good in shirt! I love you b!
Weili and Cindy

You guys have been wonderful! Adding laughters to FJJLB. Thanks for planning to surprise me with cake although bad things happened! I sincerely love the plushy you guys got for me!

WeiYang

It's very nice of you to drive us around although fuel price is expensive. Your stupid actions and ideas never fails to amuse us! You've been a joy!

Rena

The youngest member and yet the cutest! Thanks for the Sex on the Beach and the alcohol! Hang out with you soon! Love!

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I would want to apologise to XiaoLing and Isnarti for not making it in Zouk! Especiall Is baby! You wanted to get high with me! But we did not. There will be another chance! I love you guys!

Thanks to all who messages me to wish me although there were many unknown number because I lost my phone earlier on. Sorry for being rude!

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Whoa! I m hungry now. Will update soon. Lets have a very chio picture of me with Tiny before ending. Reason for this picture? Cos I think I very chio in this picture. WHAHA!

Labels: Birthday

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